One joy of parenthood is watching for signs of children’s developing talents. Children gain confidence when they become competent at something they enjoy. That’s why many parents seek out a range of activities for their budding athletes, musicians and artists. Children are blessed with other “talents” that need nurturing as well. All of God’s children, regardless of age, have spiritual gifts. He gives us certain abilities to serve him and others. Use the beginning of the school year to help your child discover their gifts and begin to use them each day.
 
Use these guidelines to begin:

• Observe your children as they interact with people, activities and objects. Note how they learn best and what emotional and behavioral traits they display. Keep track of what excites them. Talk to your children about their thoughts and feelings after a new experience. Help them take the simple questionnaire below.
• Dive into the Bible to learn about spiritual gifts. Check out passages such as Romans 12, 1 Corinthians 12, and Ephesians 4. Share special Bible verses with your children and let them know that God has a plan for their lives.
• Provide varied opportunities for children to grow passionate about God and service. Encourage children to take an active role in church programs. Try serving together as a family in a range of roles at church and in the community. Teach them that serving others can be as simple as helping another student at school. Evaluate what your children liked best and why.

Spiritual Gifts Questionnaire
In Children’s Ministry Magazine, author Lisa Stadler offers a questionnaire for discerning your children’s gifts and strengths.
 
I feel great when people notice how well I __________.
My friends would say one of my best qualities is _______.
I get annoyed when I have to _______________________.
If I could volunteer, I’d really like to __________________.
The two happiest times in my life are _________________.
If I could change one thing about myself, it would be __________________.
People would be surprised to know this about me _______.
I’d like God to help me in this area ________________.
 
Pray for your children and the development of their spiritual gifts.  Ask God:

• To assure your children that He has made them special.
• To help you become aware of your children’s spiritual gifts.
• To show all family members how they can best use their gifts to glorify God.